tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5119971309236015652024-03-13T04:49:26.628-07:00The Samuel MovementRaising Boys to be lovers of God and Menders of the broken.CarrieAnnehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07065149229266548662noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-511997130923601565.post-63978893542945881242015-12-08T08:33:00.000-08:002015-12-08T16:44:36.585-08:00Christmas Shopping at the Salvation ArmyYesterday we were in the Salvation Army shopping. There is a time when I would not have even been able to utter that sentence due to embarrassment, and to be honest, as I sit here typing, I have been tempted to delete it about a hundred times, but then there would still be no post. <br />
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In August 2015, I returned to college to work on a much desired degree in Psychology and Neuroscience. School has always come easy to me, but it has been more than a decade since I have graduated from Nursing School, I am now the Mommy of a preschooler and a toddler, and I have a mortgage and obvious other bills, so needless to say, this journey has been tremendously difficult. <br />
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I went from working full time to working per diem to accommodate my college courses and this has meant a huge reduction in money. It has meant we don't eat out or go to the movies. It has meant that I pay for gas in change, and it has meant I do not shop at the mall or online for anything. The Salvation Army and other second hand shops have become the only places I buy clothing. And for the first time ever, it is now the place I find myself Christmas shopping. Another sentence I can hardly believe is coming out of my mouth. <br />
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Since I became a Mom, I have prided myself on purchasing high quality toys, learning toys, and beautiful children's books (my real weakness, we have a small library). So having to shop for toys second hand this year has brought me to tears more times than I would care to mention. As a result, I have been forced to examine and re-examine, how the consumeristic society I live in has affected me, and even my view of Christmas. It has meant having to tell my four year old, we don't have money for yet his millionth request prompted by the media, his friends, or some add that has come in the mail. <br />
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At first, every time I would have to tell him we didn't have the money for something he wanted, be it Chinese, a new toy, or even a doughnut, I would cringe and almost choke on the words coming out my mouth, as my eyes welled up with tears. I felt like a failure, or like I was somehow letting him down. In the beginning he would cry and I would remind him, of all the ways God has blessed us, and everything we have to be grateful for. Each time, I knew I was talking as much to myself as I was to him. <br />
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In time however, something amazing has happened for both of us. I am so grateful for things I have previously taken for granted. And I have had the opportunity to really teach my son an attitude of gratitude and heartfelt praying for others less fortunate than ourselves. I really believed I was already teaching him to be grateful, but it is so easy to be grateful, when you are lacking for nothing. I have been forced to examine and re-examine how much of the consumeristic society I live in has taken over my life and even Christmas for me, not to mention what I have been teaching my children. To be honest I am ashamed of how wasteful I have actually been and I would not have ever thought previously of myself as a wasteful person.<br />
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So, to get back to yesterday's shopping trip... I was pushing Gideon in a cart and Samuel had run ahead to the few toys in the store. He happily ran back to me before I had gotten to him, two toys in hand and shouted, "Mommy look at what great thing I have found for us to give Gideon for Christmas, it is exactly what he wanted!" Not just one, but two, perfectly working tickle me Elmo's in excellent condition for $ 2.99. We stood there together talking about how God had blessed us and even provided for the desire of Gideon's heart. Samuel was grinning from ear to ear and I could have just started crying. <br />
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As we looked with great anticipation for what other treasures we would find, a very dirty little girl, about six years old, came up next to me and began tugging on my shirt. She said, " You are so beautiful. "Thank you, you are very beautiful too," I said. She then looked at Sammy and back at me and said, "He is so handsome and lucky to have a Mommy like you." I bent down next to her to talk to her about the toys she was looking at, when she whispered in my ear, "I am so hungry." I did not have any food with me (something that will not happen to me ever again. From now on, I will always at least carry a granola bar), so I thought well maybe I could talk to her Mom. But as her mother approached, there was no way for me to get a word in edge wise. And as most of you know, that is not ever a problem for me. <br />
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She was clearly high on something, wearing pretty provocative clothing especially for the weather and took no interest in her daughter. She grabbed her daughters hat and began to tug her down the aisle. "Mommy could we get a toy please, " the little girl said. Her mother picked up a bag of broken kitchen set toys, and said "Sure, you can have this." The woman did not care that they were broken or that it was not even what her daughter had been looking at. She had not even cared enough to wash the dirt off the little girls face, and she was no less interested in the desires of her daughters heart.<br />
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God is no not like this. He does not leave us with our face in the dirt and he longs to give us the desires of our hearts.<br />
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On the drive home, Samuel continued to ask about that little girl and another child at the store with a speech impediment and a substantial learning delay that had hit him for no reason. "I did not hit him back Mom and I was really trying to understand him, was he speaking English?" "Why was that girls Mom like that?" My son is for the first time, seeing a hurting world all around him and the brokenness he sees, bothers his little heart as he tries to understand it. <br />
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I hope the brokenness around us continues to break my heart as well as his. Christmas is not about stuff, it is about Jesus who came to heal our brokenness and a God that gives good gifts to his children. If you find yourself as financially strapped as I do during this holiday season, do not despair, Jesus slept in the feed box. There was no lights or amazing decorations, and no elaborate toys. The Kings brought him perfumes for his burial.<br />
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Christmas is about the gift God gave us-Isaiah 9:6 -For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. This is what we need to teach our children, this is what we need to share with those around us. <br />
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<br />CarrieAnnehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07065149229266548662noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-511997130923601565.post-90039038340409870182014-06-17T19:44:00.003-07:002014-06-17T19:57:23.009-07:00Explaining Fostering and Adoption to a ToddlerExplaining foster care and adoption to a toddler has been an interesting journey these past two months and is nowhere close to finished, as I am sure we will continue to revisit this topic as he grows and matures. Beginning the foster/adoption process again has brought a new set of challenges, fears and emotions, not only for me, but also for Samuel.<br />
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Since we only have Gideon on the weekends right now for respite, until his parental rights are removed, that means we share his care with a foster family that does not want to adopt. After we had him the first weekend and took him back, everything seemed smooth. The weekend had been great and Samuel had done so well sharing my affections, his room, and toys. But I should have known there is always a calm before the storm.<br />
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Unbeknownst to me my tiny human had been mulling over a great many thoughts in his mind and on Sunday night he refused to settle in and go to bed. He began to rant and rave in a toddler language, meaning only half of the one sided argument was understandable. After about 20 minutes my precious boy said through tears, "Are you going to leave me?"<br />
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I had explained what was going to happen many times to help get him ready, but he could not wrap his mind around the events. All he understood was we were getting a baby, had a baby, and then took a baby back, which meant to him that maybe I would take him back too. Talk about break my heart.<br />
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Needless to say, Samuel slept with me that night and has most nights since, not to mention I had to take that Monday off from work to support my peanut's emotional crisis.<br />
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Since then, Samuel has adjusted to the fact that he is mine and that we share the baby until he becomes our's forever. However, he always wants to know why we have to share and he does not understand what the heck we are waiting for (parental rights to be signed off). Every time we take the baby back, Samuel asks "Why" over and over and no answer does he find satisfying, he eventually just stops asking.<br />
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This past time, when we took Gideon back, the foster home had received a little girl about Sammy's age. Upon seeing her, he hugged her tight and then looked at me and said, "I want that one too!" And then he threw a royal tantrum, when we left without them, for which I carried him from the house screaming and flailing his arms and legs.<br />
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P.S. If you are by chance in a similar process, I am so thankful for books like Stellaluna and the television show, The Dinosaur train, which help explain adoption in a way and at a level my son can relate too.<br />
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<br />CarrieAnnehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07065149229266548662noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-511997130923601565.post-85792496516554844832014-05-29T20:04:00.000-07:002014-05-29T20:04:45.345-07:00Foster to Adoption Round TwoIn December, I was asked by DSS if I would be interested in adopting again. A micro preemie in a nearby NICU, they suspected was going to be in need of a forever home. However, this was not just any tiny human, but the biological sibling of my tiny human. He had been born in October, 8 days before my son's second birthday. He was 3 months early, and weighed in at 1 pound 7 ounces. He was on a ventilator, but was expected to be able to breath on his own soon. And like my son, he was born with many drugs in his system. The prognosis was unknown, but he had, had 1 brain bleed and his retinas were damaged. Additionally, his biological mother had left the hospital and had not returned nor left a way to contact her.<br />
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I do not know what the future looks like, but I know that my heart has room enough for two. I do not feel the same going into round two as I did in round one. I knew with a lot of certainty in my heart that Samuel would be mine from the first day I held him, but I do not have such a sense of sureness this time. I know that when the baby is absent from us, I feel like part of my family is missing, but I am afraid to fully embrace him in case the court should rule differently than expected. All of that being said, I can't help but love him. He is always smiling and his pudgy little hand wrapped tight in my hair, when he falls a sleep on my chest, reminds me continually that God has a plan and I need just keep holding his hand.<br />
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Because he is a foster child, I cannot use his name, but if this process ends in adoption, his adopted name will be Gideon Asher Bentley. Gideon meaning mighty warrior and Asher meaning happy.<br />
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Mercifully she never knew</div>
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Every night I pray over my tiny boy, much the same way I imagine these mother's prayed for their sons. As I hold his chubby little feet in my hands, smell his sweaty little baby head nestled under my chin, and see his eye lashes resting softly on his cheeks, I am overwhelmed with love for him. So when I think about the heart ache they must have felt when they saw there babies suffering, I can only imagine they must have questioned their God. Had their pain and the suffering of their precious boys been God's best for them? Why didn't He intervene on their behalf? Why didn't He rescue them?</div>
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Had Joseph been rescued from his brothers, thousands would have perished in famine, perhaps even Joseph. Had Moses not been raised in Pharaoh's house, he would have perished and his people would not have been set free from slavery. And had Jesus been saved by God, we would all perish in our sin. God's wisdom is beyond what we can see or understand. While that does not make the pain hurt less or the suffering more tolerable, it does make God trustworthy. </div>
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If your heart is breaking, Beloved hold on! You are not alone. There is no promise from God that we will be rescued, but He does not leave us. Jesus knows first hand how you are feeling, if you are crying out and feeling scared and alone. Jesus has been there. Mark 14:36<i> </i><span style="background-color: #fdfeff; color: #001320; font-family: Trebuchet, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px; text-align: justify;"><i>"Abba, Father," he cried out, "Everything is possible for you. Please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be </i>done, not mine."</span> He asked if it is possible that God take his suffering from Him. He also cried out on the cross in Matthew 27:46 <i>"My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?"</i></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">As I write this post, I have three close friends who are severely broken, due to domestic violence in their "Christian" marriages. I have seen them lain low and humiliated by the ones meant to love them as Christ loved the church. I have held them until they were limp, while their weeping shook me to the core. And now as they seek safety and healing, I have seen them judged and condemned by their different church bodies. When did the "Church" become an intolerant, disinterested, abuse condoning, non-compassionate, mob of pharisee stone throwers? Oh wait, I forgot, this is what the "Church" has been known for throughout history. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">There is never a time when abuse of any kind is acceptable or should be condoned for any reason. There is nothing acceptable about crushing another's body or spirit. To all of those who would tell a woman being abused by her husband that God commands her to stay in that marriage and that she just needs to pray harder or be a better wife, I would argue that you and I do not know the same God. </span><br />
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CarrieAnnehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07065149229266548662noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-511997130923601565.post-55999891126217761262013-09-08T10:40:00.001-07:002013-09-08T17:20:13.924-07:00Caterpillars, Toads, and DucksThe end of Summer is typically really hard for me, as I know we here in upstate NY are headed for the cold dark days of Winter. I think I actually mourn the lack of sun. However, with the preparation I have been doing to begin homeschooling the Tiny Human, I have been filled with enthusiasm and have almost failed to see the days growing shorter. Not to mention we have been using every hour of day light, since I have a very busy toddler.<br />
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Even though, Samuel will only be two in October, I have decided to embrace a Montessori type approach to education, so we are beginning a very relaxed but purposeful exploration of the world around us to develop a love for learning and early reading and writing skills. For Sammy at this age, all of his learning takes place through hands on experience, so we will be getting dirty a lot during the Autumn. Deuteronomy 6:7 <i><b>"Teach your children diligently. Talk to them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way, when you lie down and when your rise up."</b></i><br />
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My love of learning began with my mother saying, "It is not how much you know that is important, but whether or not you know how to find out the answers to what you do not know." This is one of my great desires for my son, that he will love to learn and study, especially the Bible, to find answers to his questions. This is why I am digging into the book of Exodus and digesting it bit by bit for what seems like the millionth time. Matthew 7:7 <span style="background-color: #fdfeff; color: #001320; font-family: Trebuchet, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px; text-align: justify;"><i><b>"Keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you."</b></i></span><br />
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I work in a high burn out position, with mentally ill patients who are in Crisis. It can become exhausting. However, I try to remember that my labor is not in vain, and that showing my patients love and dignity is showing them Jesus and I pray that some day they will produce fruit.<br />
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the Rhode Island Shore. However, instead of the relaxing beach holiday I had
imagined, I found myself frequently overwhelmed and exhausted by my over
energized toddler, who now shouts “No” at the top of his lungs when he finds
any situation even mildly disagreeable. Additionally, I chose to camp in RI the
weekend a hurricane was coming down the coast. Camping in the rain with adults
is hard enough, but with a toddler, it is a form of torture.<br />
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Were it not for the fact that I had already paid for 5 days
of accommodation and it was non-refundable, I might have wimped out and come
home, but I was determined to find some redeemable memorable experience to be
gleaned and add to my son’s baby book.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Despite the fact that
I was severely disappointed by a filthy city and an unusable rain drenched
beach, and a shower which required quarters, like some sort of supermarket
toddler ride, I was desperately trying to convince every molecule of my body to
be make the most of every moment. I knew my Tiny Human had nothing to compare
it to and would think it a great adventure, if I made it one.<o:p></o:p></div>
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On our way into Providence our first night (which I had hoped
would be a less expensive Boston or what I had dubbed a “Poor man’s Boston”),
we passed numerous churches all with signs giving their service times. One of
my favorite things to do when traveling is find a local body of believers and
worship with them. I look forward to and even crave it, so my friend Maria was
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As we passed by perhaps our
fifth church there was a large white sign next to it, which read, “Septic
Service.” My friend looked at me with a confused look and said, “I wonder what
kind of a service a “septic service” is?” Of course, being the granddaughter of
a well driller I immediately busted out laughing and explained to her that the
sign she just read did not go with the church, but the business next to it.
However, I could not help thinking to myself how effective church services
would be if we saw them as a “Septic Service,”…an opportunity to rid our self
of our filth, be made clean, and fellowship with our Savior (The Well Driller),
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Finally around 10 PM, after travelling all day, we located a
place to have dinner. A small casual Italian old world oven baked pizza shop.
Maria, Samuel, and I happily engorged our self on the most delicious pizza made
with goat cheese, pureed zucchini and some kind of edible flower. It was
delicious and I was pleased that there was no cow’s milk used to make the
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We left the shop and strolled along the city’s waterway. When we were nearly to our car, Sammy grabbed
his tummy and made a little whimper. Too late I realized that he had had
diarrhea and it was leaking out his diaper, down his leg, and all over my
blouse. Could this day get any worse I
wondered? Knowing we would have no laundry facilities for the next 5 days, I
stripped my son of his clothing and changed his diaper on a park bench. Then, I
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that nearly had my friend in tears laughing as she ran for the car. Becoming
completely grossed out by the diarrhea on my shirt, right there on Main Street,
I tossed it also into the can. I figured my bra, ugly though it was, was not
revealing any more to the poor unsuspecting passer byes, than a bikini would.
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On day two, we headed to the Zoo, despite the clouds looming
over head and the clear threat of rain. The Zoo was in the middle of the worst
part of the city, hidden behind huge trees, tall grass, and an enormous rusting
black metal fence. If you did not know it was there, you would not have found
it. Despite its initial appearance I hoped it would be like some sort of a
secret garden. I hopped that hidden behind the over growth and a creaky gate we
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encounters was with the Crown Crane, more specifically known to Maria and I,
from previous African safaris, as “The National Bird of Uganda.” The Crane was
extremely interactive and curious. It would follow Sammy’s chubby little hand
back and forth across the enclosure and cock its head from side to side
inquisitively making my tiny human giggle.<br />
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enclosure, where one giraffe proceeded to eat his breakfast over my son’s head,
causing leafs and grains to fall like rain over us. Samuel thought this was
great and tried to sign to the giraffe more, so he would keep doing it. Though
I am pretty sure the giraffe did not understand sign language, he was happy to
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The animal enclosure that I enjoyed the most was the
giant tank that contained three seals from Maine. They were very playful and
happy to entertain their wide eyed on lookers. My son as well as other people's small children watched with there noses pressed tight to the glass. Every time they would dance and
spin, Sammy would clap wildly. I wonder if the seals were under the impression that they were actually at the Zoo to see us, instead of the other way around.<br />
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the looming clouds and wind, we headed to the beach on day three. It did not
matter to Sammy that the water was freezing and the air barely warmer, he
dashed into the water, pulling me behind. His sweat pants and diaper instantly
full of salt water, making him several pounds heavier. We would run into the
waves and then turn around and try to race them back to the sandy beach. Swinging him through the air and into the dashing
waves, he would shout, “Again Mama, again!” </span><br />
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choice, I now realize, for a girl that gets severe motion sickness and an
extremely active toddler. We started the day with a seaside breakfast, pancakes, which Sammy ate with his dump truck.<br />
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the way out and would nestle into my chest every time we hit a big wave. He
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as three, 62 foot fin whales began to emerge from the deep, he conked out in
the front pack, so Maria and I watched and waited for each new whale citing
with all the other excited tourists from numerous countries, while Sammy snored
on my chest covered by Maria’s fishing hat.<br />
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with his congested snoring and was ready to leave the front pack behind and toddle
around the boat deck with my friend. As motion sickness had finally gotten the
better of me and I was starting to look a little green, I stayed put with my
head on the cabin table. We disembarked feeling really blessed to have seen God’s
amazing creation…and I was also happy that my little head was no longer
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perhaps one of God’s greatest gifts to me, it helps me find joy in every moment just as he does. And holding his exhausted little body at the end of the day, helps me forget the trials of the day and remember his fat little feet will only fit in my hand for a short time.<br />
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CarrieAnnehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07065149229266548662noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-511997130923601565.post-3814776379039886692013-07-04T09:32:00.001-07:002013-07-04T09:44:02.445-07:00You are Beautiful, you are Sacred, you are His!Dreams now dimmed by a lapse in judgement<br />
The baby growing inside her a gift meant for a later season<br />
Her paintings set aside with her childhood<br />
Paintbrushes laid down to take up adult responsibilities<br />
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The streets where I live are being walked by young girls pushing strollers even into the night. Their own childhoods cut short to raise children of their own. No education, no money, no hope, just brokenness. They have surrendered their dreams too willingly without understanding the cost. Their parents, the church, and the community have failed to teach them that they are made for so much more.<br />
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Pretty much at some point everyday, I have to tell my son, "No hitting" and "No throwing toys." Some people have told me, "Don't worry, it is a stage." Other people have told me, "It is just a boy thing, don't be so hard on him." While I know both of these things are said with the best intentions, I refuse to except either of them. While I expect to have to tell my son the same thing over and over at this stage in his life, I will not stop discouraging his harmful behavior on account of he is a "boy".<br />
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I love the fact that I am raising a little boy and that he is wild and loves to get dirty and would rather run than walk. I love that he wants to wrestle like a bear cub all of the time and that toys have no value in his mind unless they are a drum, a ball, or a car. However, I also love that he is learning to have compassion and show gentleness. I love that he pets ducklings with his little pointer finger and uses underwear to carry his doll on his back.<br />
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Even at 19 months my son understands that hitting is wrong. He would just sometimes prefer to use it as a way to express himself, because it is a quicker easier way of getting his point across. Using the few words he has at this age to express sadness and anger takes a lot of effort. However, communicating even for adults can be difficult, and takes effort.<br />
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Being a boy is not a reason to be aggressive. Perhaps if more boys were taught to be lovers rather than aggressors, then 1 in 4 women would not be victims of abuse during the course of their life. These statistics make me really angry, especially as some of these statistics have names and faces for me.<br />
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Even as I write this post, I know of two women in physically abusive relationships and a third woman who just left her abuser. All of these women's abusers are supposedly Christians. How can this be? As with divorce, domestic violence is not any less common in the church. This a very sad and unfortunate truth, but what is worse is that some church members and leaders excuse and even condone it by their silence or try re-label abuse by calling it an anger management issue or a hard time the couple is working through.<br />
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Can I just say out loud, "No Hitting!" Real love cannot exist in the presence of abuse any more than darkness can exist in the presence of light.<br />
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Philippians 4:5- Let your gentleness be evident to all. Note: This statement was not preceded by the word women. Gentleness is a fruit of the Spirit and is intended for both men and women.<br />
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peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and
self-control. Against such things there is no law.<br />
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I pray that the gentle correction/parenting of my toddler will help him maintain a tender heart into adulthood and yield a man that does not see gentleness and self control as traits only for women, but as characteristics of his Lord that should be mimicked.<br />
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Tonight Samuel and I had dinner with some good friends.
People we are close to, people we love and who love us. So imagine my shock,
when my friend’s 15 year old son began telling a “black joke” at my table. I felt like someone was holding me underwater, and before I could take a breath and say stop, the assault was over. It
went like this: “What do apples and black men have in common? They both look
good hanging from trees.” Even as I write this, I feel the same ball in my
stomach that I had at dinner and I want to vomit, I want to scream, I want to punch
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my son and is caring and brotherly toward him. The fact that my son is black
and her son is white has never been an issue for her family; yet, her son still
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meaning of the “joke.” Even calling this grotesque statement a “joke” makes me
cringe. Secondly, he has grown in a home where telling distasteful jokes is acceptable and a community where racial
intolerance and prejudice is accepted. And thirdly, he has no filter.<br />
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despite my ability to look at his ignorance as a teachable moment and express its cruelty, I felt offended,
and angry, that this level of hatred had found its way to my table. I am
thankful that my 19 month old is too little at this point to understand what
was said, but the fact that it was said at all, said in my home, and said in
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inundated with hate crimes in the news, seeing the damage that racial
intolerance has caused people I love, as well as, the patients I care for at
work, and some nasty comments I have been on the receiving end of, over the
past several months, because I am a white woman raising a black child. Perhaps my
patience for “stupid” is especially low, but I am fed up with people being
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Roughly 110 years ago, my son would have been considered somebody’s
property. He would have been beaten, sometimes even maimed, because of the
color of his skin. Although President Abraham Lincoln issued the Emancipation
Proclamation on January 1, 1863, which declared, “that all persons held as
slaves' within the rebellious states 'are, and hence forward shall be free;”
and even though the practice of slavery in the United States was outlawed by
the 13th amendment to the Constitution in 1865, the last known slaves were not
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Less than 50 years ago he would not have been able to ride
next to me on a bus or attend school with my friends’ children. He would have
still been considered less than. It was not until the end of the Civil Rights
Movement in 1968 that these issues were finally ratified. Noted achievements of
the civil rights movement in this area include the judicial victory in the
Brown v. Board of Education case that nullified the legal article of
"separate but equal" and made segregation legally impermissible,
passage of the the Act of 1964[10] that banned discrimination in
employment practices and public accommodations, and the Act of 1965 that restored voting rights, and passage of the Act of
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darkness still persists in the hearts of many, in 2013. Racial injustices are
still being fought and prejudice is rampant, even in the church in America. This
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“In a sense we have come to our nation's capital to cash a
check. When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the
Constitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing a
promissory note to which every American was to fall heir. This note was a
promise that all men would be guaranteed the inalienable rights of life,
liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. It is obvious today that America has
defaulted on this promissory note insofar as her citizens of color are
concerned. Instead of honoring this sacred obligation, America has given the
Negro people a bad check which has come back marked "insufficient funds."
But we refuse to believe that the bank of justice is bankrupt. We refuse to
believe that there are insufficient funds in the great vaults of opportunity of
this nation. So we have come to cash this check -- a check that will give us
upon demand the riches of freedom and the security of justice. We have also
come to this hallowed spot to remind America of the fierce urgency of now. This
is no time to engage in the luxury of cooling off or to take the tranquilizing
drug of gradualism. Now is the time to rise from the dark and desolate valley
of segregation to the sunlit path of racial justice. Now is the time to open
the doors of opportunity to all of God's children. Now is the time to lift our
nation from the quick sands of racial injustice to the solid rock of
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">It has been one year since I first brought my precious boy home. Looking back, I can hardly believe how quickly time has passed and how far God has carried us. It has been a year of deep emotion and so much answered prayer. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">My son was born addicted to methadone, to an incarcerated mother, who abused heroin and other hard drugs throughout her entire pregnancy. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Infants born addicted to heroin and methadone experience what is known as neonatal opiate abstinence syndrome (NOAS). This syndrome is "characterized by dysfunction of the central nervous system, autonomic nervous system, gastrointestinal tract, and respiratory system" (Kandall, 1999). The specific symptoms of NOAS include: irritability, tremulousness, hypertonia, excessive crying, voracious appetite, exaggerated sucking drive, abnormal coordination between sucking and swallowing, regurgitation, pulmonary aspiration, and abstinence associated seizures typically seen only in infancy. (Kandall, 1999). Additional problems approaching the toddler into adolescents include language and motor delays, learning disabilities and behavior problems. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">As a nurse, I had no confusion about the difficulties my son could face, or how hard raising him might be. However, I also was choosing to believe that with a loving mother, who would fight for him and by the power of a mighty God, he could have a hope and a future. <span class="versenum" style="background-color: white; font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;"> "</span><span style="background-color: white;">For I know the plans</span><span class="crossreference" style="background-color: white; font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;" value="(<a href="#cen-NIV-19647A" title="See cross-reference A">A</a>)"></span><span style="background-color: white;"> I have for you,” declares the </span><span class="small-caps" style="background-color: white; font-variant: small-caps;">Lord</span><span style="background-color: white;">, “plans to prosper</span><span class="crossreference" style="background-color: white; font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;" value="(<a href="#cen-NIV-19647B" title="See cross-reference B">B</a>)"></span><span style="background-color: white;"> you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."- Jeremiah 29:11. </span> After all, God was with Samuel from the beginning.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Psalm 139:13-16 For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb, I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful. I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">At seven months old, when I brought Samuel home, he could not hold his head up on his own or roll over, skills typically achieved by 3 months. We began physical and occupational therapy and I prayed for healing every day.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Slowly but surely his neck muscles and core strengthened. At 8 months he began rolling over and holding his head up. At 9 months, three months later than the norm, he finally was sitting alone. And the day before he turned 10 months old he began to crawl. The pediatrician was pleased with his progress, but told me not to be disappointed if he did not begin walking until 18-24 months. So, when he began walking three days prior to his 1st birthday, I felt like I had seen a miracle.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">My second answer to prayer came with the completion of Samuel's adoption in March, when he was 17 months old. I had such a sense of relief and peace, knowing that he was mine forever. Samuel was God's perfect gift to me, three days after I turned 28. From my birthday until the adoption hearing, felt like the days following good Friday, waiting for Jesus to rise from the dead. I was waiting for the promise to become a reality. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">After having two previous foster children returned to a less than ideal environment back with their birth parents, I knew all to well the heart ache, bitterness, and sheer agony, of watching the ones you love be ripped from your arms. Until the completion of Samuel's adoption, this fear loomed over my head and was prevalent in my dreams, despite my faith in the promise I had already received from God.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Now at 19 months, we embrace yet another hurtle. Samuel has a questionable sensory processing disorder and will be evaluated by a specialist next week. <i style="background-color: white; color: #525252; line-height: 16px;">Sensory processing</i><span style="background-color: white; color: #525252; line-height: 16px;"> </span><span style="background-color: white; color: #525252; line-height: 16px;">(sometimes called "sensory integration" or SI) is a term that refers to the way the nervous system receives messages from the senses and turns them into appropriate motor and behavioral responses. Whether you are biting into a hamburger, riding a bicycle, or reading a book, your successful completion of the activity requires processing sensation or "sensory integration." </span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #525252; font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="line-height: 15.994318008422852px;">I know whatever the diagnosis my God is able! God is so faithful.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Even though Samuel is growing and changing rapidly, I am grateful that glimpses of the baby I brought home (at 7 months old) can still be seen as we venture into toddler-hood (now 19 months old). The baby fat seems to be melting, but the beautiful smile and huge eyes remain. What an amazing, beautiful journey these last 12 months have been for me. Thank you so much to all of you who have traveled this road beside me.</span><br />
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CarrieAnnehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07065149229266548662noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-511997130923601565.post-10825697881889605452013-05-23T14:26:00.000-07:002013-05-23T18:12:00.152-07:00Green Living With A ToddlerWhen I say "Green Living" with a toddler, I am not talking about the nasty color you occasionally get in a diaper or the junk coming out of their nose when they are teething or have a cold.<br />
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In my attempt to provide a higher quality food to my child, without breaking the bank, I decided I would embark on the composting, planting, growing journey; which is part of "Green Living."I was not raised on a farm, so can I just say this has been a major learning curve for this city girl.<br />
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In the fall, in preparation for the Spring, I started a compost, but not just any compost, I started a worm hotel. The idea is that these massive red worms, the size of small snakes, break down compostable materials quicker than just leaving a pile of stinky fruit and vegetable skins rotting in your back yard as they bake in the sun, meanwhile drawing all of the cities stray cats, skunks, mice, etc... into your back yard. This is not a good way to make friends with your neighbors.<br />
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I built the thing according to the directions so that the worms would crawl up to level one of the hotel eat their food and fill the first room with worm poop, which is suppose to be great for your plants. Then, they are suppose to continue upwards into each suite until they reach the roof, so that it is easy to separate them from the soil. What a joke! The lazy suckers refused to move, they apparently missed the memo.<br />
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After reading on Pinterest about a woman with a similar problem, I just dumped the several hundred worms and all of the rotten produce into a garbage can where they are all living together happily in my garage....and no I have no idea how I will separate the little beasts from the beautiful rich soil they are creating for my plants.<br />
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Then, realizing that I had more compostable material than these little suckers could process, I purchased a rolling composter (A large black garbage can that lays on its side on wheels, so that all of the compost tea (liquid produced as compost breaks down) can drain into the platform it sits on. Now this contraption is brilliant and works exactly as it should.<br />
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So after settling how I would enrich my soil, I went to work growing organic seeds, under a light hung with chains, on a table in my kitchen. I nursed these babies for 8 weeks and was ready to plant the beautiful things, when the weather of upstate NY decided to bring a frost the second week of May, followed by temperatures in the 80's. No biggy I thought, I will just let them keep growing on my table. Sadly, their roots had a different opinion and my plants started to die.<br />
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Now it seems, I just have a river leading to a lake in a different part of my yard. And it continues to rain. Could I please just catch a little break... and I don't mean I want to fall down the stairs.<br />
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<br />CarrieAnnehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07065149229266548662noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-511997130923601565.post-41661177234463159082013-05-11T20:08:00.001-07:002013-05-25T08:48:46.725-07:00Mother's Day<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Tomorrow is my first Mother's Day, since the completion of Samuel's adoption. I am a single mom, and my son is just a toddler, so their will be no Mother's Day cards, flowers, gifts, or breakfast in bed, as many of my friends will experience.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Instead, I will wake up to the sound of my son knocking on his wall telling me he is awake and waiting for me to get him out of his crib. He will have all 5 of his favorite blankets in his arms, his stuffy (a stuffed Zebra), and 1, 2, or 3 pacifiers (depending on how many he found stashed in his bed from previous nights), all of which must be scooped out of the crib and carried into the living room with him.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Once in the living room, he will point to the couch where we will climb under a giant weighted blanket surrounded by all of my couch pillows, thereby looking like two eggs in a nest. I will cuddle him for as long as possible, breathing him in (he normally smells like sweaty toddler, peanut butter, which he rubs in his hair, and Shea Butter). I will kiss his chubby cheeks and tiny toes, and thank God for him, just as I have done every day for the past year. It does not matter to me that I will not experience all of the commercialization of Mother's Day. The best part of this Mother's Day for me is that my son knows that I am his "Mama" and he can say it!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">However, while I will be rejoicing over my very busy, ever dancing toddler tomorrow, I know that other mothers will be weeping over theirs. As they sit in the dirt holding their children's frail little bodies, my heart breaks for their quiet suffering and the helplessness that they must feel. Many of these mothers will not have another week, let alone a next year with their child, due to starvation and illness.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">While I watch my child's eyes sparkle, other Mothers will be watching as the life drains from their child's eyes. These women will not have any more of a place to lay their child to rest in death than they have had in life. Please pray for these women. Being from a third world country where pain seems to abound does not make it any less painful. Pray that they will have hope amid their present suffering.</span><br />
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CarrieAnnehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07065149229266548662noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-511997130923601565.post-89725458340964156512013-04-25T20:39:00.004-07:002013-04-28T11:19:43.381-07:00Turtle Saga<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%;">Today
on the way home from Samuel’s riding lesson (yes, the tiny human really does
take riding lessons on a tiny horse), </span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%;">we
saw an animal in the road, which I presumed was road kill. On further
examination, we realized it was an injured turtle and still alive.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Since we had Samuel’s Auntie Ria in the car (a lover of
turtles and all little beasties), I knew there was no way we were leaving the
turtle there to die. So I did what all good Mommy’s and friends of animal
lovers do… I dumped the emergency stuff out of the bin in my trunk, put on the
medical gloves from the first aid kit, wrapped the turtle in a surgical gown,
and put him in the bin on Maria’s lap.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">The turtle was approx. a 1 foot long snapping turtle and
quite unique. However, his shell was broke right in half and his internal
organs were visible. We called the vet
and were told it would need to be euthanized. However, the vets in this area
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going to ask someone to shoot the turtle. We tenderly named him Road kill and I
went to work attempting to save his life on the kiddy picnic table in my kitchen.
Though I figured he was not long for this world, I secretly hoped that he might
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off him to prevent infection and surgically removed the crushed part of his
shell that was cutting into his organs. Then, I made a bandage using a sterile
maxi pad and duct taped the two sides of his shell together. Though this seemed
slightly ridiculous I hoped that perhaps his shell would fuse in a few days and
perhaps regrow…like a fingernail.</span><br />
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his internal injuries were probably too great for him to survive. We made a
sling and head rest for him out of a pillow case and tried to make him as
comfortable as possible. Roadkill passed away 7 hours after our little
intervention…but at least he was not bleeding to death on the side of the road
in the hot son, or staring down the barrel of a gun at the end of his little
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">In light of my job as a
psychiatric/emergency room nurse, and my role as a foster parent as well as an adoptive parent this broken turtle really got to me. There are so many broken people that I see and
take care of daily. Some people and foster children are even broke beyond
repair… though few doctors, nurses, or social workers want to admit it. The toll
that physical and emotional abuse takes on a child is devastating and many
children, even with great foster /adoptive parents, lots of love, and the love
of Christ, have great difficulty recovering from the trauma they have endured.
Though they may not die physically, like our turtle, they also find it near
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">This is a reality that is shaping my life, my parenting
style, my job, my ministry, and my walk with Christ. Though my son was not
abused in the typical sense, he was born addicted to Methadone, because his biological
mother was an incarcerated pregnant heroin addict. And drug addicted babies
come with their own special set of problems. The most recent of these we are
working on conquering is a sensory deficit/integration problem.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Additionally, two days ago I was asked, by social services,
if I would be interested in adopting a 10 year old girl, who came out of a very
abusive home 6 years ago, was bumped from foster home to foster home, now
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I am not sure yet of God’s will for this little girl and
whether or not his will for her includes me as her mother. However, I do know
that my heart breaks for her, for the foster children I had before my son Samuel,
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"> Just like I could not
save this turtle, I know that many of these children will not be saved, and
that kills me. It is with issues like this that I am left to wrestle with God
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CarrieAnnehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07065149229266548662noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-511997130923601565.post-27815724717148708532013-04-23T00:30:00.001-07:002013-04-23T00:30:12.206-07:00Park Day<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;">
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: 'Helvetica','sans-serif'; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 115%;">For those of you with sons, you know what I mean when I say, “The park can be a little scary.” Oh yes, there is a toddler size play area, where he could climb gently and his feet could reach the ground when coming down the slide. The toddler play area is less than a foot above the ground and is nicely enclosed, so there is no way to fall off.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: 'Helvetica','sans-serif'; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 115%;">However, my son resists this area by throwing himself in the wood chips to loosen my grip on his hand and dashes to the school age climbing area where he has to use all of his strength just to crawl on to the first step. Then he runs across the elevated platform like a bull coming out of its pen and heads for the tallest slide( which he insists on going down head first on his tummy), all the while weaving back and forth between the openings that would lead to a bone crushing 9 foot drop for my 23.5 lb peanut.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: 'Helvetica','sans-serif'; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 115%;">Though it was obvious to me that this child was overreacting to a small bump, I asked his frazzled older sister if I could help. She said, “He has special needs and is going to become hysterical any moment and I cannot reach my mom.” I bent down and asked him, “What hurts honey?” He replied, “My foot is broken and… and… and… I am going to need surgery.” I slipped off his shoe and gently flexed it and evaluated it for any redness or swelling. As I expected all was well. Before I could give him the prognosis though, Sammy flung his arms around him, hugging him tight enough around the neck to make his head pop off. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The kid instantly smiled, put his sock and shoe on, and got up. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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CarrieAnnehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07065149229266548662noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-511997130923601565.post-77554662930425429952013-04-21T19:55:00.000-07:002013-05-25T08:50:06.413-07:00Tiny Human Dedicated<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Last Sunday, following the completion of my son's adoption, I dedicated him to God in my church. Though I was glad the adoption was finally complete, dedicating him in the presence of my friends and family held greater significance to me. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">I chose to name my son Samuel Moses, because Samuel is the first known biblical account of a mother dedicating her son to God and Moses was the first recorded adoption. </span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">Samuel 1:27 - For this child I prayed, </span><sup class="crossreference" style="background-color: white; font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;" value="(<a href="#cen-ESV-7240A" title="See cross-reference A">A</a>)"></sup><span style="background-color: white;">and the </span><span class="small-caps" style="background-color: white; font-variant: small-caps;">Lord</span><span style="background-color: white;"> has granted me my petition that I made to him. The Hebrew translation for the name Samuel means, "God has heard." </span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">Exodus 2:10- When the child grew up she brought him to Pharaoh's daughter, and he became her son. She named him Moses, "Because," she said, "I drew him up out of the water." The Hebrew translation of the name Moses means, "To draw out of the water." </span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">God </span><span style="background-color: white;">allowed me to draw Samuel Moses out of a broken home and give him a life where he could come into a knowledge of his Savior. </span><span style="background-color: white;">Being entrusted with the life of a tiny human is the most amazing gift and the greatest responsibility. I pray daily for the wisdom to know how to teach my son that Jesus is the lover of his soul. </span></span><br />
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